Two Reasons Empathetic Salespeople Win More Business


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Empathy is an emotional intelligence skill. In simple terms, it’s the ability to ‘walk a mile’ in another person’s shoes. It requires paying attention in order to know what another person is thinking or feeling.   Empathy is a huge influence skill, one that is often not covered in sales training courses or sales books. 

Why?  Empathy just sounds too soft and touchy feely. Top sales producers don’t buy into this myth because they know and understand the importance of empathy. They incorporate empathy into daily interactions with prospects and clients.  Here are two ways top sales producers win more business by being empathetic.   

#1:  Validation.    A salesperson, selling recruiting services, meets with a potential buyer.  She has done a good job of building rapport and trust. As a result, the prospect opens up, shares goals and challenges such as, “I am having a difficult time finding good people.”  The salesperson hears a buying signal and does a good job of not offering up an immediate solution.  She continues to probe, asking further questions about the hiring problem.  Sounds like a good sales call, right? Wrong. This salesperson missed an important cue from the buyer. The prospect doesn’t want to be asked more questions---he wants more empathy!

Being empathetic is as simple as acknowledging you’ve heard the prospect. “You know, you’re not the only one having difficulty finding talent.  Hiring good people is one of the more difficult and frustrating aspects of running a business…you’re not alone.” 

#2:  Objection handling.  The empathetic salesperson knows the power of bringing up potential problems before the prospect does.  Empathetic salespeople are good at seeing the world from the prospects point of view.

For example, a prospect knows that her current vendor is average, however, the fear of change and the unknown lingers in the back of her mind. The empathetic salesperson knows what the customer is thinking and brings up the fear of change. “Joan, if I were sitting on your side of the table, my biggest worry would be the perceived hassle of change….is it going to be worth it?  Should we talk further about that?” Empathy demonstrates expertise without product dumping because you show the prospect that you get her, her business  and her concerns.   

Empathy elevates trust, exposes potential elephants and increases close ratios. Soft skills do produce hard sales results. 

Good Selling!

Republished with author's permission from original post.

Colleen Stanley
Colleen Stanley is president of SalesLeadership, Inc. a business development consulting firm specializing in sales and sales management training. The company provides programs in prospecting, referral strategies, consultative sales training, sales management training, emotional intelligence and hiring/selection. She is the author of two books, Emotional Intelligence For Sales Success, now published in six languages, and author of Growing Great Sales Teams.


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