Go the Extra Smile


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When a book’s opening sentence includes the following phrase in bold, I know I want to read what the author has to say:

Good service is good business.”

Simple concept, right? Treat customers well, and the business will flourish. Yet some still don’t get that.

There’s another book you need to add to your reading list: Smile: Sell More with Amazing Customer Service. As is touted on the book’s cover, it’s a 60-minute crash course to help you get started doing just that – 88 pages packed with more tips and examples than you think might be packed into this book.

Why is this book different? I like that the author, Kirt Manecke, was the owner of an award-winning specialty store. More importantly, he understands the importance of employee onboarding and the employee experience – and the relationship to delivering a great customer experience. The book contains tips from that employee training program and from Kirt’s 30+ years of general business and selling experience.

He starts the book with the top ten ways to make your customers smile and outlines how to do each one.

1. Smile. If someone walks into your business, greet them and be polite.

2. Make a friend. People buy from people they trust. Apply the golden rule.

3. Answer the phone with a smile. First impressions are lasting impressions, right?

4. Say “Please” and “Thank you.” Simple enough.

5. Acknowledge your customers, even if you’re busy.

6. Never ask, “Can I help you?” There are better ways to engage your customers.

7. Uncover the customer’s ultimate buying motive. What job is he trying to do?

8. Probe. Ask questions. Dig deeper.

9. Listen.

10. Know your product and your competition.

Early in the book, Kirt introduces some research discussed by Martin Lindstrom in Buyology, i.e., The Smiling Study, in which researchers looked at how joy and happiness affected shoppers. The results: “a smiling face ‘evokes more joy in the target person than a non-smiling face,’ and it also produces a far more positive overall attitude toward the business in question. … and the smiling person reported that they would be more likely to keep on patronizing the company in question.” (Mind you, this study was all done with the volunteers imagining a smiling scenario. But I still like the results.)

Lindstrom also mentions in Buyology a piece of research done by Duke University that uncovered that people were not only attracted to people who smile but are also more likely to remember their names. “We want to remember people who were kind to us, in case we interact with them in the future.”

The proof is in the pudding. Or in the business results.

OK, back to Smile. Making customers smile doesn’t just come from what you say to, or ask, them; it’s also a result of your attitude and behavior. The next ten tips reflect this theme and are detailed in the book.

1. Make good eye contact.

2. Watch your body language. Make sure it’s welcoming and professional.

3. Be enthusiastic.

4. Dress for success.

5. Keep it professional.

6. Don’t make the customer wait.

7. Before you put a customer on hold, ask permission.

8. The customer in front of you comes first.

9. Follow up promptly.

10. Master electronic etiquette.

There’s more to the book, but I’ll leave it at that and let you discover the rest. Again, it’s a quick and easy read but filled with great words of wisdom. If there’s any doubt about the validity of this concept, this thing that is sometimes foreign in the world of customer service, i.e., the smile, just think about the last time you walked into a store or a restaurant. Did the employee smile? Did he make you smile? How did it make you feel?

Note: Kirt sent me a copy of his book with no obligation to read or review.

A man without a smiling face must not open a shop. -Chinese Proverb

Republished with author's permission from original post.

Annette Franz
Annette Franz is founder and Chief Experience Officer of CX Journey Inc. She is an internationally recognized customer experience thought leader, coach, consultant, and speaker. She has 25+ years of experience in helping companies understand their employees and customers in order to identify what makes for a great experience and what drives retention, satisfaction, and engagement. She's sharing this knowledge and experience in her first book, Customer Understanding: Three Ways to Put the "Customer" in Customer Experience (and at the Heart of Your Business).


  1. Hello Annette, Thank you for your wonderful article. Making customers smile by delivering a great customer experience, as you know, makes customers smile and increases sales. Thank you again!


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